Shopping Guide for Canadian Parents
Girls Formal Dresses Canada
The Mall Reality
If you've lived in the GTA long enough, you know that children's formal wear simply cannot be found in malls. The Bay doesn't have it, walking around Yorkdale is a waste of time. Holt Renfrew used to carry children's clothing, but they cut that line. If you want to buy a flower girl dress, you have to make a special trip.
Important to Know
Major department stores in Canada typically don't stock children's formal wear. Don't waste time searching at The Bay, Yorkdale, or other mainstream malls.
Specialty Stores
Grandma's Little Darlings
Oakville, Ontario
There's a store in Oakville called Grandma's Little Darlings that has been open for decades, and many GTA parents go there to shop. The storefront isn't big, with flower girl dresses hung on one wall and First Communion dresses displayed separately. The staff will ask you how old your child is and what occasion the dress is for, then help you pick. This kind of service you can't get online.
Adorable Kids
Mississauga, Ontario
Mississauga also has a store called Adorable Kids, which also specializes in this type of clothing.
Online Shopping
Online there are many choices but also many hassles. There are tons of shops on Etsy Canada selling flower girl dresses, with prices ranging from tens to hundreds of dollars. The cheap ones might be factory-made, while the expensive ones claim to be handmade. Before buying, you need to check reviews, look at buyer photos, and see how long the shop has been open. Those with a Star Seller badge are relatively more reliable.
Etsy Shopping Tips
Look for Star Seller badges, read buyer reviews carefully, check buyer photos, and verify how long the shop has been operating.
Ordering from US Stores
US stores shipping to Canada require waiting. There's one called Mia Bambina where custom orders take two to three months to wait. If you need it urgently, you can only buy ready-made stock, which limits your choices. Shipping costs are separate, about twenty-something US dollars. Returns are even more troublesome—the shipping cost might be more expensive than the dress itself.
Custom Orders
Wait time: 2-3 months for custom-made dresses. Plan accordingly if choosing this route.
Shipping Costs
Approximately $20+ USD for shipping. Return shipping may cost more than the dress itself.
Return Warning
Returns are complicated when ordering from US stores. Return shipping costs can potentially exceed the price of the dress.
Second-Hand Options
Some people also buy second-hand. Facebook Marketplace often has listings for thirty to forty dollars, noting "worn once." That's how it is with flower girl dresses—worn once and then stored away, so there are quite a few people reselling. Second-hand children's clothing stores like Once Upon a Child might have them too, but selection depends on luck.
Facebook Marketplace
Common listings around $30-40. Most are "worn once" condition. Great for budget-conscious families.
Once Upon a Child
Second-hand children's clothing stores may carry formal wear. Selection depends entirely on luck and timing.
Dress Rentals
Dress rental has become a thing in recent years, with Rent the Runway starting a children's project. Not everyone accepts this though—some families feel that baptism gowns and such carry meaning, and renting won't do. Traditional Catholic families sometimes have gowns that have been passed down for generations, making renting even less of an option.
Cultural Considerations
Some families, especially traditional Catholic ones, prefer owning rather than renting ceremonial clothing due to the sentimental and religious significance. Some gowns have been passed down through multiple generations.
Timing Your Purchase
You need to buy flower girl dresses in advance. You should start looking three to four months before the wedding. Custom orders require waiting, ready-made stock needs trying on, and if it doesn't fit, you need to exchange. Waiting until the last month is too rushed.
3-4 Months Before
Start looking and researching options, whether custom or ready-made
2-3 Months Before
Place custom orders if choosing that route; allow time for production
1-2 Months Before
Try on ready-made options, allow time for exchanges if needed
Last Month
Too rushed! Avoid leaving shopping to the final weeks
Pro Tip
Start shopping 3-4 months before the wedding to allow enough time for custom orders, trying on, and potential exchanges.
Color Selection
Color depends on the wedding theme. Traditional is white to match the bride, but now some weddings have a main color scheme, with flower girls matching the bridesmaids' colors. Pink, light purple, and blue are all popular choices. For First Communion, there's no choice—it can only be white.
Popular Flower Girl Colors
First Communion
For First Communion, there is no choice—only white dresses are appropriate for this religious ceremony.
Accessories
Accessories are bought separately. Headpieces, shoes, small bags, shawls—specialty stores sell all of these. A complete outfit costs more than just the dress.
Budget Reminder
A complete outfit costs more than just the dress. Factor in all accessories when planning your budget.
Shopping by Province
Ontario has the most options, with specialty stores concentrated in the GTA. Other provinces basically rely on online shopping. Parents in Vancouver or Calgary either order online or buy when they happen to be visiting Toronto.
Ontario
Most options available. Specialty stores concentrated in the GTA (Greater Toronto Area). In-person shopping experience with personalized service.
Other Provinces
Rely primarily on online shopping. Parents in Vancouver and Calgary often order online or shop when visiting Toronto.
Dress Inspiration
Quick Summary
In-Store
GTA specialty stores offer personal service and immediate try-on. Best option for Ontario residents.
Online
Etsy Canada & US stores offer variety but require careful vetting and longer wait times.
Second-Hand
Facebook Marketplace & consignment stores offer budget-friendly "worn once" options.