Flower girl dresses, simply put, are formal dresses for little girls worn at weddings. Canadian weddings are similar to American ones—flower girls are usually little girls between 3 and 8 years old. Too young and they can't walk steadily and will cry; too old and wearing a puffy dress gets a bit awkward.
Flower Girl Dresses Canada
Everything you need to know about choosing the perfect dress for your little one
Where to Buy in Canada
There are quite a few places to buy dresses in Toronto. There's a store called Sweet Ones in Newmarket—a physical store where you can try things on, phone 905-503-0808. In Mississauga, Grandma's Little Darlings offers pickup. Vancouver has Forever A Flower Girl. For online shopping, Azazie, Etsy, and Amazon all have options, with prices ranging from twenty dollars to five or six hundred dollars depending on what tier you want.
Fabric Matters
Fabric is quite important. Tulle is that ballet skirt netting material—puffy, light, and kids won't get too hot running around in it. Satin has a shiny finish that photographs well. For summer outdoor weddings, don't choose anything too thick or the child will sweat and get fussy. For winter indoor weddings, velvet is quite suitable.
Tulle
Ballet-style netting. Puffy and lightweight. Perfect for active children who will be running around. Doesn't trap heat.
Satin
Smooth with elegant sheen. Photographs beautifully. Classic choice for formal ceremonies.
Summer Outdoor
Avoid thick fabrics. Children will sweat and become irritable. Lightweight options recommended.
Winter Indoor
Velvet works wonderfully. Adds warmth and luxury. Rich texture for cold-weather celebrations.
Sizing Is Tricky
Sizing is a pitfall. Flower girl dress sizes are different from regular children's clothing—you need to measure with a tape measure. Chest, waist, and height—three measurements. When measuring, keep the tape flat, don't angle it. A 5-year-old child's chest is approximately 24 inches and waist around 23 inches, but every child is different, so you still need to measure. When buying online, stores will usually ask you to send the numbers and they'll help you choose the size. Buying one size up is better than buying too small—too big can be altered, too small can't be fixed.
Measurement Tips
Keep the tape measure flat and level. Measure chest at the fullest point, waist at the natural waistline, and height from floor to shoulder. Always measure the actual child—don't rely on clothing tags.
| Measurement | 5-Year-Old Average | Note |
|---|---|---|
| Chest | ~24 inches | Every child varies |
| Waist | ~23 inches | Measure at natural waistline |
| Height | Varies | Critical for length selection |
Color Selection
White and ivory are the most common colors, matching the bride's dress. Some choose pink, light blue, or sage green to coordinate with the bridesmaids' colors. Color decisions are up to the bride—flower girl parents generally don't have much say.
White & Ivory
Classic choice. Coordinates with the bride's gown.
Soft Pastels
Pink, light blue, blush. Romantic and sweet.
Sage Green
Trendy choice. Often matches bridesmaid dresses.
Timeline & Ordering
Custom dresses take time to wait for—at minimum three to four weeks, and with shipping time it could be a month and a half. Ready-made items are fast and can ship in two or three days. Starting to look three months before the wedding is about right—too early and the child might have a growth spurt and not fit into it anymore.
Custom Orders
3-4 weeks production minimum. Add shipping time. Plan for 6 weeks total. Start looking 3 months before wedding.
Ready-Made
Ships in 2-3 days. Good for last-minute needs. Less customization but faster turnaround.
Start looking three months before the wedding—too early and the child might grow; too late and custom options won't be available.
Who Pays?
Regarding money, traditionally the flower girl's parents pay. But some brides give it as a gift—this needs to be clarified in advance to avoid awkwardness. Cheap options online can be found for twenty to thirty dollars, expensive ones cost several hundred dollars—depends on the budget.
Budget Range
Online budget options: $20-30. Mid-range selections: $50-150. Premium and custom designs: $200-600+. Discuss with the bride early to avoid misunderstandings about who covers the cost.
Care Instructions
When the dress arrives, it needs to be ironed—tulle material will have creases, use a garment steamer slowly. For washing, hand wash only—don't throw it in the washing machine.
Steam Carefully
Use a garment steamer on low heat. Work slowly to remove creases from tulle without damaging the fabric.
Hand Wash Only
Never machine wash. Gentle hand washing preserves the delicate fabrics and embellishments.
Proper Storage
Hang in a breathable garment bag. Avoid plastic that can trap moisture and cause yellowing.
Accessories
Accessories are purchased separately—flower crowns, veils, little dress shoes, and such. Shoes need to be comfortable—it's an all-day wedding event, and if they're too stiff the child will complain.
Flower Crown
Classic choice. Fresh or silk flowers. Coordinates with bouquets.
Hair Accessories
Veils, ribbons, clips. Match the dress style and color palette.
Shoes
Comfort is key. All-day event. Break them in beforehand.
Dress Length
Length matters. Knee-length is convenient for kids to run around in; ankle-length photographs better but is easy to trip on. Consider the child's age and personality—for the more energetic ones, choosing shorter is safer.
Knee Length
Easy movement for active children. Safer for running and playing. Practical choice for energetic personalities.
Ankle Length
Photographs beautifully. More formal appearance. Requires careful child—easier to trip.
Finding the perfect flower girl dress combines practical considerations with the magic of the wedding day. Start early, measure carefully, and choose comfort alongside style to ensure your little one shines down the aisle.