Special Occasion Shoes

Let's start with weddings. What shoes the bride wears is actually not very visible to others—a long dress covers them, and at most only the edge shows in photos. But the bride herself knows: whether her feet hurt after standing all day and whether she can walk steadily depends entirely on these shoes. There's a British brand called Emmy London that specializes in wedding shoes, known for thick cushioned insoles and Portuguese handcraftsmanship. Stuart Weitzman also has a bridal collection—their crystal-embellished style frequently appears on Instagram.

Block heels have become popular in recent years. Outdoor weddings are increasingly common, and stilettos sink into grass. Some say block heels don't look as elegant, but twisting your ankle and falling is even less elegant.

Graduation ceremonies are overlooked by many people. They think since you're wearing academic regalia that covers everything anyway, just wear whatever shoes. Then after standing for two to three hours during the ceremony, their feet swell up. For graduation ceremonies, choose shoes for comfort. Wedges, block heels, Mary Janes all work—square toes are more toe-friendly than pointed toes. New shoes should absolutely be broken in a few days beforehand; don't open the box for the first time on ceremony day.

The rules for men's dress shoes are clearer than for women. Oxford shoes have the highest formality level—the lace eyelets are sewn under the upper, making the whole shoe look clean and sharp. Derby shoes have the eyelets on the outside, one level down in formality, but more comfortable to wear—people with high insteps find Oxfords tend to pinch. Loafers have no laces, just slip on and go—suitable for business casual occasions.

White Tie & Black Tie

For white tie and black tie occasions, opera pumps are worn. This type of shoe has existed since the 18th century and can still occasionally be seen on red carpets today. Made of patent leather or velvet, with a bow on the upper.

Holiday party shoes can be more adventurous. Gold, silver, rose gold, sequins, rhinestones—go for it. Wear red velvet to Christmas parties, wear something sparkly to New Year's parties—no one thinks it's too much.